What I've Learned About Lolita

As someone new to the Lolita life, I quickly learned that I needed to do a bit of research before I officially join the community. Even though I've known about Lolita since early high school years, I never actually looked into buying things or making things because I never thought I could pull it off.

I've gained some confidence (and independence) since then so I'm finally ready to make the leap even if I only stick with it for a few years. Because I love looking all princess-y and regal and I want to do it even if I only have one piece. I always fall hard and fast for Innocent World pieces. And Fanplusfriend I recently discovered. I really can't wait!
\(> w<)/

The lessons!

FIRST! Lolita is expensive!

Oh my goodness so much money and time goes into making full co'ords! Even off brand ones. And goodness knows I have low funds for anything outside of necessities.

SECOND! Lolita has no age restriction!

I was pleased to find out there are lolitas with families and living well into their forties and up! Which means I can take my time coming up with something that's totally me. (^ w ^)

THIRD! There is a massive Lolita community (outside of Japan)

This might be the most surprising of all. I expected Lolita to be one of those "weird Japanese things" but I'm learning it wouldn't be difficult to find people just as into it as I am. or difficult to find people just as new (> w <)

FOURTH! Lolita has some very strict rules!

Some stick more to them than others. I expect to be more flexible with them, especially since I have such little funds.

FIFTH! There are so many archives!

There are so many resources to look at. I've been combing through lolibrary and hellolace to start with. I believe those might be the most comprehensive. I can't wait to start looking into forums and talking to others though (^ - ^)


Here's wishing you sunshine and happiness!
~Forever Sun

Handmade Lolita :D

In Lolita I don't think there's anything I appreciate more than a personalized piece. Unfortunately, I don't have much experience with such kinds of personalization. But I hope to gain more.

I think it'd be a great idea to document what I try here! Especially since I don't have a Lolita wardrobe yet. I've always wanted to make my own clothes. I do some designing actually. But they never get off the page. :/

Maybe I'll post some of the ideas I've had for cords someday! (^-^)

Here's wishing you sunshine and happiness!
~Forever Sun